Emotionally focused therapy:  EFT is research based and seeks to help couples create secure connection and security.  This is achieved through learning about their own and their partner's deeper emotions and needs; how they generate cycles of interaction that interfere with feelings of safety and needs being met; and how to get this turned around.  EFT helps address questions such as "Do you really love me?" "Am I important to you?"  "Are you there for me when I really need you?"  Creating a secure emotional base leads to greater happiness in itself and also leads to better problem solving in general.